I hate this position, and I hate when I realize I've made such a stupid silencing blanket statement like this whether in jest or frustration or out of a sense of revenge.

And yet, ironically, some of the content of this post falls into that kind of category... like the "what on earth are they thinking"-ness of the complaints about Fabio!Snape. It's exactly the reverse position, that maybe someone who likes that would feel they had better keep their mouth shut if they wanted me to like them (not that my esteem is a valuable commodity in the marketplace!).